Grace Gavera should not become JUST another statistic

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Apart from  her family,  friends, workmates and neighbors,  not many people knew who Grace Gavera was until this week.  

For those who have not been on Facebook,  there is a  picture that shocked many people. It shows  a Papua New Guinean woman, stripped, humiliated and tortured  before she waskilled.  There’s blood all over her bodyand she died a horrible, painful death.

On Saturday, evening her dad spent the early part of the night at her residence at Erima. They chatted for a while, then he went home.  In the morning they told her, his daughter was dead – killed by her abusive boyfriend.

Why was she killed? I don’t know.  But why should any Papua New Guinean women be killed? And why should  there even be any attempt to justify the  killing of any woman  by an abusive boyfriend or partner or husband?

The Health Minister, Dr. Puka Temu,  has come out to condemn the killing.   Powes Parkop and Robert Agarobe have both issued similar statements.  But you know what? Every killing of  PNG women at the hands of abusive partners should be condemned with the same energy every time.  This forum should be bigger.

It should be discussed in  the all male parliament with the same  passion  and determination as the  DSIP funding,  corruption  and  expensive sports cars.

Grace Gavera isn’t just another static added  to the long list of  victims of women killed by their partners.  

Yesterday, I learned that Grace died at the age of 26.  She was an  administrative clerk at the National Department of Education.  She was raised by her grand parents and later  by her aunt and uncle.

Yep… she’s not a statistic. She is a real person. 

At least two days after the  killing, the alleged  murderer was caught by police in Port Moresby.   He is now in custody.  The  pictures of the arrest were  shared on social media.

Yesterday, I asked Grace Gavera’s dad if he was going to call for the death penalty. He said:   NO.  He doesn’t want the burden of another person’s death placed on him.  But he wants  suspect to face the full force of the law.

He also made an another important point: NO COMPENSATION!

Why should we seek “justice” for a man and profit through compensation for a woman killed by her partner.

He wants justice served and I agree.

Father of slain woman: No compensation, I want justice

The father of Grace Gavera, the  26-year-old woman who was killed by her boyfriend  at the weekend  says he won’t be accepting compensation nor will he be calling for  the death penalty.

Bau Sabadi said he just wants the murderer of his daughter to be arrested, charged and  sent to prison for his crime.

Mr. Sabadi, who spent the early part of Saturday night  at her daughter’s residence in Port Moresby  was shocked when he was told the next day that his daughter was dead.

“I was with her on Saturday. We chatted for a while and then I left,” Sabadi said.  “Next day I got calls saying ‘you come to the office because your daughter is dead.’”

Grace Gavera had just joined the Education Department as an administration clerk.  Relatives said she had suffered ongoing abuse at the hands of her boyfriend, Andy Baro, for  at least two years.

On Saturday night, family members say she was  slashed on her head and body by Baro.  When she was taken to hospital she  had already lost a lot of blood.   But her ordeal didn’t stop there.  Andy Baro, followed her to the  hospital and took her from  the hospital bed, then forced her into a  cab.

Relatives couldn’t not say exactly what  happened  then.

“When I went to see her, she was in the layout at the hospital.  I saw  where her body had been cut,” Mr. Sabadi said. “They told me  he put a pipe in her private parts.”

Last night, police  arrested Andy Baro  several hours after  killing Grace Gavera.

“I want justice. I cannot call for the  death penalty. That is revenge. I cannot be held accountable for his death. But he must face the full force of the law.

Why working hard is a prayer of thanksgiving


I am not religious. But I do believe in the existence of  a higher power and  the importance of a higher purpose.   Last weekend, I was invited to speak to a group of  youngsters  from all over the country.  This is one of many engagements I have found myself attending  for over six years.

Sometimes, I don’t understand why I end up in meetings like the one on Saturday. In fact I was struggling to understand why I was there.  I had a presentation ready but my thoughts were in a jumble.

Before me, Major General Jerry Singirok, spoke about leadership and how young people had to stand up to the challenge  and believe in what is right.  It rang true to me in my confused state.

When I took the podium about two hours later,  I also spoke about leadership and hard work.  For me, hard work and persistence driven by a higher purpose is vital in anything you do.

Many people say prayer is important. I agree.  But prayer without the action that is supposed to follow achieves nothing.  Inconsistent action also  achieves little.  Action without  belief  and without a higher purpose is energy misspent.

Some people ask me why I work so hard sometimes without  immediate results.  It’s because of a higher purpose.  As the generation that is fortunate to lead, we have to  appreciate  the  special opportunity given to us.  Every era… every time… is special.  We are born for a reason.  We have to inspire, cause positive change and teach others younger than us to do the same.

Is it about yourself?

When you are finding yourself, maybe yes.  After that, what then?  Almost always, the higher purpose exists outside of all that you were striving to achieve in your personal life.  There are questions to be asked. Personal questions. The answers are always there if you seek them.

I have shared this many times and on Saturday, I shared this again: A Japanese friend told me on a bullet train from Tokyo to Nagoya that “Work is a sacred because it is a gift from the gods.”  What would you do with a gift?  You keep it safe and you treasure it. You build on it and you nurture it. Unlike material gifts, work rewards you depending on how much effort you put in.

I’ve gone further to add value to that important lesson.

On many occasions, I have said, “work is a gift” and “working hard is a prayer of thanksgiving.”

How is that?

You give thanks for your physical and mental abilities when you work hard.  You give thanks for your ability to see, hear and feel.  You give thanks for your hands, feet, heart  and the sanity of your mind.

Where does rest come in?

Rest is important to revitalize mind body and spirit in preparation for the battle.   Rest is meant to sharpen the senses,  to enjoy achievements to see the future through the eyes of the spirit then to come back and work for a higher purpose.

REINSTATED: Thank you PNG & the many friends who stood up for me


Dear all,

Over the last 48 hours, I have been very  humbled by the incredible support my family and I have received from people  both here and abroad.   Support also came from friends in the media,  academia, law enforcement, the military and many other circles too many to name.

I have since been reinstated to my job as Deputy Regional Head of News at EMTV

I wish to thank our media friends here and overseas, especially.  Thank you for your support and your words of encouragement.    Thank you to my immediate and extended  family and to  the strangers who offered support and words of encouragement in Port Moresby,  Lae and remote parts of PNG.

My news teams both in Port Moresby, Lae, Kokopo, Madang and Mt. Hagen  demonstrated the highest level of professionalism and maturity by remaining away from everything that has happened.  I am proud to lead this team of young journalists,  camera operators and support staff.

A great many thanks  also to management of EMTV and CEO for working through this very trying time despite the challenges and pressures. A very special thank you to Head of News, Neville Choi and the powerful, Sincha Dimara.  (I apologize if I missed out anyone.)

I was suspended on Sunday 18th November, on the last day of the APEC meetings.  The  reasons for the suspensions are now  public knowledge and  I do not wish to dwell too much on them.

However, I do wish to make the following points:

  1. Papua New Guinea is a democracy and the media is free to hold those in authority to account. This means highlighting flaws in policy and making sure mis

  2. takes are pointed out and corrected. It is an essential part of our democracy.

  3. There should NEVER be any interference at the operational level by board members. The media is an institution of democracy and must remain free and independent.  It is our constitutional right to report AND be critical.

  4. Journalists of “state owned” media are NOT government public relations officers nor are media organizations PR machines.

  5. EMTV is “State owned” which means the PEOPLE own this company through their elected government.

  6. Journalism is an art… and art and creativity cannot operate in an environment of suppression and fear.

Papua New Guinea is a critical moment of its history with the growth and influence of China, US-China trade tensions and  challenges within our own country.

We are a largely  rural nation. Many of our people  still have no access to basic services.

We will continue to promote critical,  proactive  and transparent journalism.  The people’s voice has to be heard and the media must remain as the conduit and platform for opinions and debate and those who cannot accept it MUST step aside and let progress happen.

-Scott Waide

PNGFM news boss calls for investigations, penalties for troops who assaulted journalists at Parliament

As Director of News for PNGFM, I am very disappointed at the manner at which two of my reporters, one male and one female, were assaulted by disciplinary officers while covering the storming of Parliament on Tuesday the 20th November 2018.

They were simply there to do their jobs and cover the proceedings of what was happening at National Parliament when they were accosted by a group of inflamed disciplinary officers, both police and correctional service officers.

Upon seeing the journalists – one officer called out “Em ol Reporter ya, ol laik kisim wanem kain story, paitim ol”. (“They are reporters, what kind of story are they here for, beat them up.”)

The female journalist was manhandled by a group of police officers who pulled at her shirt attempting to rip it.

“One of the police officers pulled out my camera from my bag and smashed it right in front of me. While I was trying to take in what was happening, another officer pulled my bag causing the leather handle of my bag to break. He then threw my bag on the ground, kicked it towards the other officers, they in turn kicked the bag back to him, emptying out all my belongings in my bag. Another officer picked up my phone and smashed it while others were shouting and yelling abusive languages.”

She was pushed back and forth during the commotion with just one elderly officer attempting to assist her and help her out to safety.

At the same time, the male reporter was separated from his colleague then told to put his camera away and not film or take shots.

“During the struggle, I was attacked by a Correctional Service officer at first, which then lead to police officers surrounding me and attacking me. During the incident, I was trying to see what was happening to my colleague, but kept getting punched until one Police Mobile Squad officer pulled me away to safety. I had my vest broken, my note book gone and the company camera destroyed by the officers.”

PNGFM has written a letter of Complaint to Correctional Service Commissioner Stephen Pokanis and Police Commissioner Gary Baki calling for those involved to be penalized.

Such an attack is an attack on our media freedom when journalists should be protected and not be subjected to such attacks for merely doing their jobs.

Meanwhile, at separate media conferences on Thursday, both Commissioner Pokanis and Commissioner Baki were informed of the assault against our journalists and have given assurance they will investigate this matter thoroughly.

– Genesis Ketan, Director of News, PNGFM

So Jelta, what if teachers protest over pay cuts and attack Parliament House? No action?


I know the Police Minister, Jelta Wong, has a complicated job to do.  But this decision  announced publicly   is wrong.   It  doesn’t serve the interests of the country  or the democracy.  All it does is reinforce the notion that lawlessness is acceptable if the government doesn’t listen to you.

The concern by police officers and warders is genuine.  I totally agree that they should be paid. The action to  damage parliament is wrong.  As Minister of Police,  you should enforce the law.  We cannot allow our country to slip into anarchy.

When Major General Jerry Singirok and  the PNGDF  kicked out Sandline,  solders went to parliament, students barricaded the precincts and soldiers led by Major Walter Enuma went into the people’s house.  They did it for the nation’s interests and they didn’t destroy property.  Major Walter Enuma was mindful of the constitution  when he handed over his sidearm to another officer before going into the PEOPLE’S house.

Mr. Minister,  if the teachers who have been affected by ongoing pay cuts do the same and storm parliament, what then?  Are you going to  send it police to arrest them? Or are you going to give them a public pardon just like you are doing now?

What kind of a message are you sending here?  That we are a nation of rogues supported by the Minister for Police?

I support the fact that allowances should be paid on time.  But Sorry bro, your decision is wrong!

Chinese officials kick EMTV & foreign media out of APEC events but allow Chinese state media

Picture by ABC’s Natalie Whiting

Papua New Guinea’s  freedoms of speech, expression and access to information were challenged yesterday when  Chinese officials barred  both local and non-Chinese  media from attending  meetings at three APEC venues.

It  began in Parliament when Chinese President, Xi Jinping was giving an address after a guard of honor.  EMTV journalist, Theckla Gunga, who was assigned to  cover the Chinese President’s visit  reported that just after 11am,  Chinese officials accompanying  their president ordered the microphones removed  from the  speaker where they had been placed to record the speeches.

“Chinese officials who are organizing the official opening of the Chinese funded six lane road have refused to give audio feeds  to media personnel,”  she said in a WhatsApp message. “Microphones belonging to both local and international media have been removed.

The officials however, allowed Chinese state owned broadcaster, CCTV,  to record Xi Jinping’s speech.

Theckla Gunga and other journalists spent about 10 minutes arguing with the Chinese officials but were still refused.

One hour later, EMTV Online reporter,   Merylyn Diau-Katam,  faced another group of Chinese officials at the gate of a Chinese government funded school.

“Before the President arrived a bus full of Chinese media personnel were driven into the gate on a bus,” she said. “And when we wanted to go in, we were told our names were not on the list even though we had APEC accreditation passes.

“No media. No media, a Chinese official said.”

Merylyn Diau-Katam was not the only one refused entry.  In the group was a photographer from Japanese public broadcaster, NHK and other media.  A PNG government official also spent several minutes arguing with the Chinese security to let him in.

At 5pm yesterday (16/11/18),  Chinese officials again, booted out  local and international media from a meeting between the Chinese President and Pacific Island country  leaders.   EMTV anchor and senior journalist, Meriba Tulo,  was among others told to “get out” of the meeting while Chinese media were allowed into the room.

The Australian Broadcasting Corporation  was also  told to leave.  They spoke to Post Courier’s senior journalist, Gorethy Kenneth.   She said Chinese officials from Beijing were initially angry with the presence of international media.

“I said: ‘We are here to cover the meeting, our names have been submitted.’ And they said: ‘No, all of you get out.'” Kenneth said.